爱情社会学讲义aa03l01.docx

爱情社会学／2011年秋季／爱(情)的分析／孙中兴／第 39 页 爱情社会学孙中兴爱（情）的分析国立台湾大学社会学系 【本着作除另有注明外，采取创用CC「姓名标示－非商业性－相同方式分享」台湾3.0版授权释出】※因版权缘故，此开放式课程讲义经过页码重新编码及内容删减，与上课影片所讲述的页码和内容不尽相同，恳请了解研究爱情的各种理论Susan S. Hendrick和 Clyde Hendrick (2000:203-215)提出下面几种社会心理学的爱情理论： 1 激情爱与友情爱 (passionate and companionate love)Berscheid and Walster. 1969. Interpersonal AttractionE. Walster and G. W. Walster. 1978. A New Look of Love.2 爱情的原型 (prototype approach to love)Beverly Feher. 1988. ‘Prototype Analysis of the Concepts of Love and Commitment,’ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 55: 557-579.Beverly Fehr and J. A. Russell. 1991. ‘The Concept of Love Viewed from a Prototype Perspective,’ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60: 425-438.Beverly Fehr. 1993. ‘How do I Love Thee? Let Me Consult My Prototype,’ in S. Duck. Ed. Individuals in Relationships. Pp. 87-120.Beverly Fehr. 1994. ‘Prototype-Based Assessment of Laypeople’s View of Love,’ Personal Relationships, 1: 309-331.3 浪漫爱与自我拓展 (romantic love as self-expansion)A. Aron and E. N. Aron. 1986. Love and the Expansion of Self: Understanding Attraction and Satisfaction.A. Aron and E. N. Aron. 1997. ‘Self-Expansion and Including Other in the Self,’ in S. Duck. Ed. Handbook of Personal Relationships. Pp. 251-270.4 浪漫爱与演化 (romantic love and evolution)L. W. Mellen. 1981. The Evolution of LoveDavid Buss. 1995. ‘Evolutionary Psychology: A New Paradigm for Psychological Science,’ Psychological Inquiry, 6: 1-30.David Buss. 1996. ‘The Evolutionary Psychology of Human Social Strategies,’ in E. T. Higgins & A. W. Kruglanski. Eds. Social Psychology: Handbook of Basic Principles. Pp. 3-38.David Buss and D. T. Kenrick. 1998. ‘Evolutionary Social Psychology,’ in D. T. Gilbert, S. T. Fiske, & G. Lindzey. Eds. The Handbook of Social Psychology. 4th Edition. Vol. 2. Pp. 982-1026.5 爱的三角理论 (triangular theory of love)Robert Sternberg and S. Grajek. 1984. ‘The Nature of Love,’ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 47: 312-329.R. J. Sternberg and M. L. Barnes. 1985. ‘Real and Ideal Others in Romantic Relationships: Is Four a Crowd,’ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 49: 1586-1608.R. J. Sternberg. 1986. ‘A Triangular Theory of Love,’ Psychological Review, 93: 119-135.R. J. Sternberg. 1987. The Triangle of Love: Intimacy, Passion, Commitment.6 爱情故事 (love stories)A. E. Beall and R. J. Sternberg. 1995. ‘The Social Construction of Love,’ Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 12: 417-438.R. J. Sternberg. 1998. Love Is a Story. Oxford: Oxford University Press.7 爱情的方式 (love ways)P. J. Marston, M. L Hecht, & T. Robers. 1987. ‘True Love Ways: The Subjective Experience and Communication of Romantic Love,’ Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 4: 115-130.P. J. Marston, M. L. Hecht, M. L. Manke, S. McDaniel, and H. Reeder. 1998. ‘The Subjective Experience of Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment in Heterosexual Love Relationships,’ Personal Relationships, 5: 15-30.8 爱情风格 (love styles)J. A. Lee. 1973. The Colors of Love: An Exploration of the Ways of Loving.C. Hendrick and S. S. Hendrick. 1986. ‘A Theory and Method of Love,’ Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 50: 392-402.J. A. Lee. 1988. ‘Love Styles.’ In R. J. Sternberg & M. L. Barnes. Eds. The Psychology of Love. Pp. 38-67. B. S. Meeks, S. S. Hendrick, & C. Hendrick. 1998. ‘Communication, Love and Relationship Satisfaction,’ Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 15: 755-773. 9 爱情的依附理论 (attachment theory)﹝这个部份是我加的﹞Phillip Shaver, Cindy Hazan, and Donna Bradshaw. 1988. “Love as Attachment: The Integration of Three Behavioral Systems,” in Robert J. Sternberg and Michael L. Barnes. Eds. The Psychology of Love. New Haven, CT.: Yale University Press. Pp. 68-99. Kim Bartholomew and Leonard M. Horowitz. 1991. “Attachment Styles among Young Adults: A Test of a Four-Category Model,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 67, 2: 226-244. Zick Zubin (1970:265-273) 浪漫爱的测量爱情的三个组成部分1 联合和依赖的需要 (Affiliative and dependent need)举例：「如果我永远不能和＿＿＿在一起，我会觉得很痛苦」(If I could never be with ______, I would feel miserable)；「没有＿＿＿的话我会活的很难过。

」(It would be hard for me to get along without ______)2 帮忙的倾向 (Predisposition to help)举例：「假如＿＿＿心情不好，我就应该马上安慰他(她)」(If ______ were feeling badly, my first duty would be to cheer him (her) up)；「我会为了＿＿＿做几乎所有的事」(I would do almost everything for ______)3 独占和融合 (Exclusiveness and absorption)举例：「我想独占＿＿＿」(I feel very possessive toward ______)；「我觉得我可以告诉＿＿＿几乎所有的事」(I feel that I can confide in ______ about virtually everything) 爱情量表 (love-scale)项目1 假如＿＿＿心情不好，我就应该马上安慰他(她) (If ______ were feeling badly, my first duty would be to cheer him (her) up)2 我觉得我可以告诉＿＿＿几乎所有的事。

I feel that I can confide in ______ about virtua。