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男人不坏,女人不爱

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    • 1、常言说“男人不坏,女人不爱” ,可在现实生活中,真的是这样吗?一句流传甚 广的老话让人生出无数的争论和暇想。以个人观点而言,所谓的“坏男人”只 是少女情怀梦中的“黑马王子” ,就像飘中的男主人公白瑞德那样,当年这 部电影的男主角那坏坏的眼神不知迷倒了多少女生。可是平淡的生活,让人感 受最真实、体贴和关怀的,还属好男人。正如文中所提,温暖就是他有心记下 你不经意的一句话,于是,巧克力般的甜蜜醇醇萦绕于心。 StephanieNice Guys VS Bad Guys 男人不坏,女人不爱? By Joyce Durham 陈小雨 译Women love bad boys. 1)Nice guys finish last. Welcome to the most damaging and 2)far-flung myth ever to hit the dating world. Im sure youve heard it in its many forms; if you want a girl to fall for you, dont let on that you like her

      2、, treat her badly, be aloof. Never work too hard or call too soon. Keep her waiting. With only 700 words at my disposal, I dont know if I can fully emphasize how misguided this notion is, but, with the help of some chocolate, Im going to try. First, lets look at the 3)genesis of this myth. Who 4)perpetrated such a simplistic and 5)apocryphal set of ideas? Was there one guywell call him Guy Zerowho met some horribly wounded female soul, treated her poorly and found that she was powerless to resis

      3、t him? Perhaps he played 6)racquetball with a guy (I dont know why Im setting this in the 80s) who sat next to another guy at work who told his cousin who spread it throughout some 1fraternity in Ohio. How did this happen? This is an airborne dating 2Ebola. As a thought virus, its 7)replicating and 8)mutating and is deadly to the entire species.That may have been 9)melodramatic. Still, I had to make a point. Based on my own experiences and the countless hours Ive logged talking to girlfriends, I

      4、 can tell you plainly: theres nothing sexier than nice. Yeah, I said it. Nice works. Let me give you an example. If a woman mentions she used to love chocolate and you bring her one on your first date, thats the story shes going to tell her friends about you. That chocolate is why shes going to go out with you again. With that little 10)waxy snack food, you are buying yourself a passport of good will. When you arrive late for a date or show up to her parents for dinner without bringing wine shel

      5、l think to herself, “Yeah, but he brought me chocolate. Hes a NICE guy.” Gentlemen, Im letting you 11)behind the curtain here. Im your 3Willy Wonka to the Chocolate Factory that is a womans heart. This is how it is. Every door you open, every time you tell her you like her shoes, every time you pick her up on time, every time you get her a second drink before shes finished with her first, shes falling in love with you. Why is this myth so pervasive? Why has it been allowed to thrive? How can it

      6、possibly span all ages and social classes and races? I think I know why. Heres a 12)scenario that is probably happening all over the world right now as you read this. A man meets a woman, he treats her well, she goes out with him a few times but decides shes just not interested. Why? Maybe shes not physically attracted to him, which is the most likely reason. Maybe she doesnt like the way he 13)snapped at the waiter. Maybe she senses hes not ready for a commitment or too ready for one. The possi

      7、ble reasons are endless. The man will feel rejected, and rightfully so. He will never really know why he was dumped, but he will carry the lingering humiliation of having really tried his best. Hell feel the way guys cant stand to feel, vulnerable, used, 14)emasculated, 15)cuckolded, stupid. His only relief is the belief, “I was too nice. Women only like 16)jerks.”No. She waited for the nice. She left for the real reason, because she wasnt interested in you. I know it hurts, Ive been left, too,

      8、but creating some fantastical theory isnt going to make it better in the end. I have never known a woman to drop a man because he was “too nice.” I guarantee you, do something nice tonight, not necessarily expensive or difficult, just kind, and she will be 17)bragging about you tomorrow. How many times in your life can you be a hero for the price of a chocolate? I hope Ive made a difference. If you still think “nice guys finish last” ask yourself what sort of race youre running. Maybe its time t

      9、o 18)forfeit and ask if that shivering girl on the sidelines would like to borrow your jacket.女人喜欢坏男人。好男人却总是吃亏。 欢迎你来听听关于两性约会最具破坏性、流传最广远的荒谬说法。我相信你听 过这种说法的很多个版本:如果想让一个女孩爱上你,就先不要对她露出爱意, 而要对她坏点、冷淡点。千万不要过于殷勤,或者过早给她打电话。就把她晾 在那。 我打算只用七百个字来阐明观点,但不知道能否充分强调上述观念的误导性之 大,然而借助巧克力的能量,我还是要试一试。 首先,让我们看看荒谬说法的起源。是谁炮制了这套如此简单化、不足凭信的 说法呢?是否有一个男人我们姑且叫他做零号小伙子他遇到一个心灵 上曾极度受伤害的女子,但并不好好对她,之后发现她竟无法抗拒他的魅力? 或许他在跟一个小伙子玩网拍墙球(我也不知道自己为什么会把这介定为 80 年 代的事情)时告诉了他,这家伙又和坐在他隔壁的同事说了,同事又告诉了他 的表亲,表亲把它散布到俄亥俄州的一些兄弟会去了。这是怎样发生的呢?这 是一种经过空气传播的埃博拉约会病毒。作为一种思想病毒,它正在复制和突 变,并对所有物种有致命作用。 那样说可能戏剧化了一点。尽管如此,我还是得阐明我的观点。根据我的个人 经验以及与女友交谈过无数个小时的记录所得,我可以明白地告诉你,没有比 好男人更性感的了。是的,我刚刚在说,好男人才讨人喜欢。 给你举个例子。如果一个女子提及她常喜欢吃巧克力,而你在第一次约会时就带给她一块,她会把这件事告诉她的朋友们。巧克力就是她再次与你约会的理 由。凭着那小块光滑零食,你给自己买了一张好人通行证。所以如果约会迟到 或者跟她父母吃饭时没有带酒,她就会想, “算了,但他给我带了巧克力,他还 是个不错的家伙。 ” 男士们,现在我让你们看看幕后内情吧。我就是威利旺卡,来引领你们进入 号称为女人之心的巧克力工厂。来吧,这就是事情的真相。 每次你为她打开一扇门、每一次你告诉她你喜欢她的鞋子、每一次准时接载她、 每一次在她喝完第一杯饮料前就给她端来第二杯时,她都会

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